For anyone who knows Drew and I we are HUGE fans of NOT finding out what we are having before our little one arrives. This time we did find out and the only reason is because of Ty. When we got the positive test we were set on being surprised for the third time. Then Ty began to say things like this...
"It's a baby sister."
"I won't love it as much if it's a brother."
"Dear, God please send me a baby sister... Thank you... He said yes!"
"We can trade it for a girl if God sends us a boy"
For this reason we decided that a time of adjustment would be necessary if this little one was a boy. We also thought it may be better to start that adjustment before the baby arrived. So we took Ty to the ultrasound and found out it's a girl. Ty said "I know" and was sooo excited. He still is excited.
I have to say though it is weird knowing what we are having. It has taken about a month just to get used to the idea. For the first few weeks we continued to call her "it" or "the baby." One day I told Drew I had figured out how I was going to decorate Abby's room. His response "Who's Abby? (insert moment of silence) Oh! I can't believe we're having a girl!"
I have enjoyed planning out her nursery more then the last two, but I think that has more to do with the fact that we, well me, can actually decorate a nursery this time around since we've been in rental houses the past two times. And yes I have already began to buy her clothes and should soon start making her some. But I do have to ask. What is UP with ALLLL the pink? Seriously don't they know that baby girls can wear other colors. If I wanted that much pink on her I would just dip her in a large tub of Pepto-Bismol.
So some of you may have noticed I said "Abby" earlier. We will be calling her Abby which will be short for.....
Tabitha. Middle name has not yet been finalized. Any suggestions?
The 20 week belly